Breakups are not easy, especially if you are still in love with your ex. It is exceptionally hard to let go if you were on the receiving end of the breakup. Fortunately for you, your relationship- or what is left of it- can be salvaged.
Read on to get amazing secrets on how to get your ex back.
5 Ways to get your ex back effortlessly
- Do not reach out
Reaching out to an ex after a breakup is not advisable. Give them space and time to breathe. This might even make them question their decision to leave you. Control the urge to choke them with endless calls and messages. Who knows, they might even miss you!
- Work on yourself
Take the time you are giving them to work on yourself. What can you do better yourself emotionally, psychologically as well as physically? Go to the gym, build your self-esteem, take care of your skin and above all, love yourself. Work on what you can change and accept what you cannot. After all, you are imperfectly perfect.
- Flaunt your changes
This is the time to take photos, videos to show off that new body, the positive attitude and the new you. Make sure your ex sees that you are living life. This does not mean you fake it, you should be genuinely enjoying otherwise, it is useless.
- Reach out
If they have not reached out already by now, it is your time to reach out. Casually inquire how they are doing as you would any friend. Do not beg, do not nag. Make sure you are not forcing anything on them as this comes out as desperation. Desperation is not pretty.
- Ask to meet up
Request to meet up somewhere private. If you were the cause of the breakup, inquire what you can do to be a better person in future for yourself even if not for them. Finally, ask if they would like to try another shot at the relationship as you work on your flaws. Ensure to show them you still care and would like to make it work.
If you do not get a yes at another shot, it means you were not the problem. Remember, you are special and deserve to love and be loved back equally. Try this with a sane ex and you are guaranteed affirmative results.